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Books I Read in 2011

I didn’t read as much as in 2010, but it was still a pretty good year of reading. Here’s my list, categorized to highlight those I would most strongly commend to other readers.

I Liked These Enough to Re-Read Them in 2011
To Hate Like This is to Be Happy Forever | Blythe
An Abundance of Katherines | Green
My Name is Asher Lev | Potok
The Gift of Asher Lev | Potok
the Harry Potter books | Rowling

Ten I Highly Recommend
Fidelity | Berry
Life Together | Bonhoeffer
Nurture Shock | Bronson + Merryman
O Pioneers! | Cather
Peace Like a River | Enger
Black Like Me | Griffin
My Life with the Saints | Martin
The Return of the Prodigal Son | Nouwen
Winter Light | Smith
The Inimitable Jeeves | Wodehouse

Very Good Reads
Matilda | Dahl
Almost Christian | Dean
The Hundred Dresses | Estes
Bossypants | Fey
Everything is Illuminated | Foer
Will Grayson, Will Grayson | Green + Levithan
The American | James
Everything Happened But Not Like This | Jurkis
Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? | Kaling
On Writing | King
Eating the Dinosaur | Klosterman
The Friendship Doll | Larson
A Severed Wasp | L’Engle
The Small Rain | L’Engle
The Group | McCarthy
Emily of New Moon | Montgomery
Lancelot | Percy
Engaging God’s World | Plantinga
The Whole-Brain Child | Siegel + Bryson
Mere Churchianity | Spencer
Gulliver’s Travels | Swift
Sacred Marriage | Thomas
Kicking at the Darkness | Walsh
Still | Winner

These Were Good, Too
Practical Theology for Women | Alsup
Jesus, My Father, The CIA & Me | Crom
The American Plague | Crosby
Falling Together | De Los Santos
Generation Ex-Christian | Dyck
A Visit from the Goon Squad | Egan
Juliet, Naked | Hornby
Half the Church | James
The Key to the Golden Firebird | Johnson
Parenting Beyond Your Capacity | Joiner + Nieuwhof
Gooney Bird on the Map | Lowry
The Next Christians | Lyons
Start Something That Matters | Mycoskie
The Grace of Silence | Norris
The Tiger’s Wife | Obreht
Suddenly in the Depths of the Forest | Oz
Anna & the French Kiss | Perkins
I Am Scout | Shields
Vietnamerica | Tran
Look Homeward, Angel | Wolfe

Might Be Your Cup of Tea (But Wasn’t Really Mine.)
You Know Who You Are | Dolnick
The Apostles Creed for Today | Gonzalez
Treasuring God in Our Traditions | Piper
Scammed by Society | Stygles
Young Fredle | Voigt
The Attenbury Emeralds | Walsh

a possibly impossible 2012 manifesto

in the new year i will endeavor to…

keep reading and write everyday
make a cozier, tidier home
have people over often
create lovely things, just because
eat better and exercise
make music

read with the girls
teach them handcrafts
say yes to my family
love michael better
write more letters, keep up with old friends

try new things
dream bigger
keep the faith

it’s not so impossible.

(title stolen from the lovely mollie greene.)

Fall in Love with Memphis 2012

We moved in July, and I’ve spent most of my new-to-town energy getting the girls settled and getting to know people. I have a strong sense of place, and I need to get to know Memphis better to really settle in. I’ve been to Overton Park locations (Zoo, the Brooks) several times. We’ve ridden the Downtown Trolley loop and walked to Mud Island Park. We found a BBQ joint (the Bar-B-Q Shop) and a Mexican place (Las Delicias.) At the suggestion of a friend, I read a book about the yellow fever epidemic which prompted a visit to Elmwood Cemetery. A decent start, but I’ve got a long way to go.

So, the new year seems as good a time as any to declare the start of my “Fall in Love with Memphis” campaign. This is my tentative to-do list. Locals, please make (inexpensive) suggestions!

Get my driver’s license, aka become a legit Tennessean.

Visit the National Civil Rights Museum, Sun Studios, the Stax Museum and the Rock & Soul Museum. Get some culture at the Dixon. Think about spending the big bucks on Graceland.

Eat Breakfast at Bro. Juniper’s. Have Gus’s Famous Fried Chicken. Find some good local family and cheap date restaurant options. Find a coffee shop, aka stop pouting. Go to Muddy’s when depressed as a reminder that Memphis wins that category.

Take the kids back to Shelby Farms to the super cool playground. Take them to Lichterman Nature Center and to do the labyrinth at Audubon Park. Discover other cool places to play. See something at the Orpheum.

Find some team spirit: Grizzlies, Red Birds, Tigers… not that choosy about which one.

Wordless Wednesday (last DPP round-up)

A Prayer For Christmas

God of all ages,
in the birth of Christ
your boundless love for your people
shattered the power of darkness.
Be born in us with that same love and light,
that our song may blend with all the choirs of heaven and earth
to the glory of your holy name. Amen.

Happy Christmas!

No more let sins and sorrows grow,
Nor thorns infest the ground;
He comes to make His blessings flow
Far as the curse is found.

May your Christmas be filled with joy.

Still & My Life with the Saints

StillStill by Lauren F. Winner

Still by Lauren Winner is aptly subtitled “Notes on a Mid-Faith Crisis.” It is a collection of reflections from the middle, from a place of messiness, doubt and despair. That terrain is familiar to many and the ability to feel less alone in those moments by reading this book makes it worthwhile.

Winner directly informs readers that this is not a memoir. If you are looking for juicy details about her marriage falling apart, you won’t find them here. In the moments the book got the most personal and vulnerable, it connected most deeply with me as a reader. But I understand why there is a sense of discretion, and at times, detachment, in the writing as well. Winner is very respectful of her ex-husband, placing the blame for their shaky marriage and its dissolution squarely on herself and her issues. If she had delved more deeply into the personal, this respect would have been hard to maintain.

The writing is poetic and beautiful, as readers have come to expect from Winner. “Notes” fits well, as the chapters vary in length from a few sentences to many pages, and include many quotes and ideas from poets, writers, theologians and friends.

Overall, there is a hope in Still. Instead of fleeing when she felt far from God, Winner stayed in her church, stayed in her community, and learned to feel God’s nearness again. Her means of doing so may not work for others in the middle (and this book is very far from setting itself up as a model for others or self-help by any means) but it is a testimony that one can feel engulfed by anxiety, doubt and despair and start to believe more deeply again. And that is a beautiful message to the church. (8/10, expected to release January 31, 2012, I received an advanced copy from the publisher, which in no way affected my review.)

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MLWTSMy Life with the Saints by James Martin

Winsome and wickedly funny, My Life With the Saints is part history, part theology and part memoir. Sharing about his own life and discovery of a variety of saints in the Catholic Church, James Martin helps readers to see the encouragement we are able to find from other Christians (living and dead) while striving to follow God with our own unique gifts and experiences.

Far from being dry, Martin’s interactions with the saints serve as a model for how others can study the saints for themselves, as companions and friends. He includes men and women, from many different ages of the church. As a Jesuit priest, Martin has a thoroughly Roman Catholic theology of the saints, but I think protestants can also learn a great deal from this book. (9/10, seeing Father Martin on Colbert again reminded me to pick this up off my shelf. Thanks Stephen.)

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Christmas at Home

Part of a continuing series on celebrating the church year.

Before I jump in with my usual list of ideas, I want to note that for some people, Christmas is not the most wonderful time of the year. It reminds them of old pain, or of all the ways things are not the way they are supposed to be. This advent sermon by Jeremy Jones is worth listening to if you or someone you love is suffering this Christmas.

The twelve days of Christmas stretch from Christmas to Twelfth Night (January 5th.) It is one of the great feasts of the church, and a time of joy. For me celebrating Advent is the only way to stretch Christmas out throughout the season without hitting fatigue. So, consider these suggestions with that in mind!

Obviously, most people celebrate Christmas by giving gifts. It’s a good opportunity to share joy with ones we love. Perhaps you can start some fun family traditions for the Christmas season, like playing games or a special read aloud.

One of the ways you can continue your Christmas celebration is by keeping up your decorations for all twelve days. Leave out your nativity scenes to play with, moving the wise men as they follow the star (to arrive on Epiphany.) You can sing carols and light your advent wreath (all four outer candles and a center Christ candle) at meals.

We will probably select from this devotional to study some of the characters of Christmas more deeply than we did in our Jesse Tree (or, finish in years we get behind!)

Many families have Christmas traditions that emphasize Jesus’ birthday, serving a special cake or decorating with Happy Birthday Jesus signs.

Save your new years dieting resolutions one week, and keep baking and feasting throughout Christmas. The last several years, I haven’t started baking until Dec 15th at the very earliest, and gave most of that away.

Later in Christmas is a good time to throw a party. In both Richmond and Birmingham, we had friends with that tradition. Most everyone is back home for Twelfth Night, and there are less conflicts than in December!

In the spirit of the season, here are a few free printables for y’all, sized at 8×10:

gloria | luke 2hark the herald

What are your family Christmas traditions? Any good ideas for celebrating for 12 days? May your days be filled with joy!

Fourth Sunday in Advent

Purify our conscience, Almighty God, by your daily visitation, that your Son Jesus Christ, at his coming, may find in us a mansion prepared for himself; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

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