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In Praise of the Small Town

I am really looking forward to moving to the city, but there are aspects of our small town life I will miss. Lexi got a stomach bug* Sunday night that necessitated washing her car seat cover last night. Forgetting this fact, I went to put the girls in the car to run a very important envelope to the post office for a very important family. With the sudden realization that the carseat needed to be put back together, I quickly decided that it would be faster to just walk. That’s the joy of living four blocks from the post office. It was cool outside, but not completely unpleasant, and the girls were enjoying themselves a great deal. That’s when I conceived of writing this blog post, in praise of small town life.

We approached the old post office, a squat and utilitarian structure that looks like many small post offices built in the 50s and 60s: mid-century modern, sans chic. Carefully walking up the narrow and rather steep wheelchair ramp, I tried to make it in the door. A kind woman saw me struggling and came to my aid. My new-used double jogger was one-half inch too wide. (Note to the government – wheelchair ramps should have roomy doors.) So I went down the ramp and in the front double doors and parked the stroller at the bottom of the stairs. Two kind old ladies watched over the girls in the lobby while I walked into post office proper to conduct my business. (The girls were no more than 15 feet from me, and in full view, we kept eye contact and regular waving the entire time.) It was approximately 4:30p and as is often the case, there was no one in line, and I was able to buy the necessary postage in a minute flat. Our post office displays a “5 minutes or less” sign, and I’ve never waited longer. I can’t say that for any other post office I’ve regularly patronized!

And so, only slightly thwarted by the narrow door, we bid adieu to our new small town friends and walked the few blocks home, passing three neighbors who stopped to say hello.

Strollin' (for the blog)

* Lexi is well, but Kate fell prey tonight. Please pray that she stops vomiting and Michael and I are spared.

Accountability

I desperately need to update the girls’ blogs. In the midst of parenting, planning for the future, teaching, grading, photographing, cooking, laundry and cleaning, I’ve got a lot of stories to tell I don’t want to forget.

Photo Friday

Happy Valentine's Day . 45/366

Maybe I Have a Dealer Personality

In college, it was books and music. I was always trying to sell someone on some great artist or novel they’d love. I thought I’d outgrown it, but I see it creeping back in.

Several people have told me recently that I got them hooked on babywearing and cute slings. GUILTY AS CHARGED.

Books are still pretty high on the list, but The Jesus Storybook Bible by Sally Lloyd-Jones is definitely the big one. I’ve blogged about it several times. I have the most helpful review on Amazon. I used the sample chapters online with my 50 coop students and got a few families hooked. Locally, if the topic comes up I am quick to suggest it. But as with my previous forays into pushing, I get good feedback and I’m encouraged to keep on keeping on.

So This is Me

One of the things that is hardest for me about our vagabond marital life is dealing with my insecurity. I am an extremely insecure person when it comes to interpersonal relationships. I pretty much assume everyone thinks I am annoying and obnoxious. Not staying in places for very long didn’t help me overcome that. I could only be convinced a few people liked me before we moved again. Whenever I think I am growing up, this hits me again, like a knife. I wish I would get over middle school some time in my twenties.

Photo Friday

Plug for My Dear Old Dad

If you live in North Carolina and are considering a kitchen makeover, check out CounterCraft.

A Survey, Of Sorts.

I drive about 15 miles to work, and today I counted signs.

On a road that leads from the city to McMansion-land (1 mile)
– 1 Obama
– 1 Ron Paul

On a byway around the city (9 miles)
– 8 Huckabee
– 13 Ron Paul

On the East-West Interstate that goes through the city, and coast to coast (2 miles)
– 1 Ron Paul

On the road into our small town (2.5 miles)
– 6 signs for a DELEGATE (Welch) for Obama voters. He really wants to go to the convention.

I found it interesting that there were zero signs for Hillary, McCain and Romney, and only one for Obama. It’s like an inverse corolation between national polling and local signage.

Primary Updates

If you haven’t seen this, you must. When M. sent it to me yesterday, he said it is like America’s Razom Nas Bahato.

I made some calls for Mitt today. It felt good to participate. If it is McCain v. Obama in November, I’m voting for Obama. I know that on the issues no candidate is farther from me, but Obama will at least catalyze the Republican party to change the way they deliver their message.

We vote tomorrow.

Photo Friday

Friends . 28/366

Reviewed: January Books

The Nine by Jeffrey Toobin
As a person who is not endlessly fascinated with the law in general or the supreme court in particular, I found this book utterly engrossing. I enjoyed the glimpse of how the court works on both a professional and personal level, and I know that I will follow it much more closely in the future because of this book. – 9/10

Across Five Aprils by Irene Hunt

I read this with my sixth grade literature students, a lovely piece of historical fiction – 8/10

My City Was Gone by D. Love
This book about a small town in east Alabama that has the unfortunate distinction of winning one the one of the largest punitive damages case in the nation, $700 million dollars, at the same time they were destroying the stockpile of chemical weapons there (prompting another distinction, the first time the government issued gas masks to civilians.) We live less than an hour away, and pass by this town often, and I enjoyed learned more about it. – 8/10

On the Road
by Jack Kerouac
This was worth reading once, not because it made me long for the road (it didn’t) or for freedom (ditto) but because the rhythm of the prose is enchanting. It’s dated, but I like dated. – 8/10

On Beauty by Zadie Smith
A very solid contemporary novel, awkward in parts. I think better editing would have enhanced it. – 7/10

completed in The Bible – Job and Genesis

Super (Dee Duper?) Tuesday

We’ve been watching the debates all along, but it gets more exciting with Super Tuesday fast approaching. We’ve acquired our voter registration cards and we’re ready to cast our votes.

Who’s watching tonight’s debate? What do you think?