Category Archives: culture

Where Can I Hide from Their Presence?

We haven’t been to Wal-Mart in a month. I’ve blogged about it before, but I just don’t like Wal-Mart. I try to avoid it, even though it’s hard in a small town where Wal-Mart is the largest and cheapest store. We usually drive to the next town over to shop, about seven miles without much traffic but a few traffic lights. Anyhow, even avoiding it, Wal-Mart is still on the tip of my tongue and the front of my mind. When Kate pushes her shopping cart around the house, she is always “going to Wal-mart!” When I recommend my favorite homeopathic teething remedy, I tell where they usually shelve it at Wal-Mart.

On a related note, I would like to confess publicly that I like Starbucks.  I really like independent coffee shops as well, but Starbucks is the closest coffee shop to me and they have above average hot chocolate and decaf drinks.  Due to the kindness of my marvelous husband, I go to Starbucks almost every Monday evening, get something to drink and read for a few hours.  Over the course of the last free months, I’ve come to know several of the employees and we chit-chat about life and books.  I am always surprised that they remember my name and story and was tickled when they made me an extra drink “on the hiz-ouse” this week and gave me a Bearista for Kate.   Some empires, not so evil.

Overheard, travel edition

We returned yesterday from 12 days of traveling (2000 miles, 8 states.)  Anyhow, here are some signs you’ve been hitting the drive-thru Starbucks a little too often.  When your two and a half year old (a) knows that the St. Arbucks drive-thru does not have fries and doesn’t even bother to ask for them and (b) upon hearing “Welcome to Starbucks, what can we get started for you?” says “I’d like a grande mocha, please!”  (NB she has never, ever had a mocha.)

HT: Richard O

You can now listen to two of Andrew Peterson’s albums in their entirety online–


The Far Country
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Behold the Lamb of God
Behold the Lamb of God

These are pretty amazing CDs. You ought to own them. Go listen and convince yourself.

Maybe I am a Winner, After All

I am not a winner. I never win anything. I used to blame it on being reformed. I’d say things like “Presbyterians never win anything.” Then I met this family here in Birmingham that won a $100,000 contest they didn’t even intentionally enter while they were members of a PCA church. So I can’t say that anymore.

I started doing Blingo in June. I don’t do 10 searches every day for maximum entries, but I do use it. Today, when I least expected it, I typed “pumpkin chocolate chip” into the Firefox search bar with Blingo as my search engine and I won a $10 iTunes giftcard (which means J.T. did, too, as my referrer!) It’s not an iPod (we could use a new one…) but it’s something. Maybe I’m a winner after all.

The Stormin’ Mormons

Somehow I found myself on Ken Jennings’ blog. One of those random web-surfing experiences. Some of his posts were funny enough for me to read aloud to Mike. In the midst of our giggling, we decided Ken Jennings is one of the poster children for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Then Mike declared, “Ken Jennings and MITT ROMNEY! They should run together. The Republican ticket would be the stormin’ Mormons!”

The story is true but I really wrote this post to prove that memorizing the correct capitalization and punctuation for the Mormon church for a class in college really was worthwhile. If only I could learn my cell phone number.

Potpourri

I know that Brad is going to be disappointed, but I just can’t get into Galileo’s Daughter. Maybe if I had been able to work out Astronomy as my lab science at Carolina… I’ve read 75 pages and it’s just not gripping me.

The Myth of Prodigy and Why it Matters — a good read for all parents.
(HT: BetsyPage)

I took a luxurious bubble bath in the clawfoot tub at 6:15 pm while Mike took the kids out of the house. I am a very blessed wife.

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at least, until someone makes me an offer I can’t refuse.

Must See on YouTube

“Don’t Give Up (Africa)” Bono & Alicia Keys duet of a Peter Gabriel song, on last Friday’s Oprah.

HT: Andy Osenga

I wish I could say with conviction that the West has been a friend to Africa.

Am I a Pharisee?

We have been attending a church that meets late Sunday afternoons.  We enjoy the timing because it makes the whole day feel very restful, but not going to church Sunday mornings makes me paranoid.  We live in a small town (albeit next to a big city, it is still a small town) where many of our neighbors invited us to church upon meeting us.  Both of our cars are obviously home every Sunday morning.  Then I took the girls for a walk this morning and I wondered what people thought about me walking around with two casually dressed children at 10:30 Sunday morning.  I almost wanted a shirt that said, “I’m not a pagan.  I go to church later in the day.”  Sunday mornings are just so entrenched in our culture as church time, and I do appreciate the setting apart of a day for the Lord, but I know that 11 a.m. is not intrinsically sacred.  I just have to keep reminding myself of that.

Not Ashamed

I’m not ashamed to be really happy that we are back in a market that shows the Gilmore Girls. And I’m not ashamed that I hate FOX for airing baseball instead of House. I’m also not ashamed that we normally record House and watch it after the Gilmore Girls since they are both on at 7p.

I don’t think I’m quite a TV junkie (I only watch four shows!) but we’ve come a long way from the TV-free days of the first half of our marriage.

Books and Music, Cheap and Free

We’re still loving Paperback Swap. We’ve received almost 20 books now and setting up the wishlist means we get a steady stream without doing anything at all except send out books as they are requested as they notify us when books we want are posted in the system. It’s really a great site: pay for media mail postage to send out a book, get a credit when the book is recieved and then get any book you want for that credit! If you list nine books, they’ll give you 3 credits to start out (Full disclosure: if you click on our link, we get a credit if you register and list nine books)

Another great site I used recently is emusic. If you sign up, you get 25 legal mp3s for free. They have a good selection of music from independent and smaller label artists, I could have definitely found 500 songs I’d love to have without any trouble. I get nothing from emusic if you sign up, I’m just passing it along!

Why I Blog

I’ve been meaning to write about this for a while, inspired by other posts in the blogosphere.  I’ve been blogging for almost six years now, almost a full quarter of my life.  Many of you remember my first blog, my first mentions of Michael, my graduating from college, our engagement and wedding, Kate’s birth… Some of you are newer and your stories of finding us and connecting with our family are special to me, even if we don’t go “way back” like others.  Some of you are real life friends who started reading to keep up with us, because it’s one way to easily do so.  I blog because along the way, I have found a community in my little corner of the web.  I know that this community is more than a little artificial.  I know that you all only know the part of our family I want you to see.  I know that real life community is vitally important.  But there are days when real life feels lonely, the big box store sterile, the phone too difficult to talk into with two girls twirling about and a little bit of blog interaction reminds me of what I know already — there are people that care about us out there.

As long as you keep reading, I’ll keep blogging.  It may not be every day.  Real life happens, after all.  But five years and ten months later, it’s a habit too hard to break.  Thanks for coming along for the ride.

Our Soundtrack of Late

Derek Webb started giving out his entire album Mockingbird earlier this month. It’s absolutely free for the download at http://www.freederekwebb.com/  I have really been enjoying it, and play it often in the car. It’s full of catchy songs that make you think, and what more could you want than that?

Here’s a preview of the lyrics:

don’t teach me about
politics and government
just tell me who to vote for

don’t teach me about
truth and beauty
just label my music

don’t teach me how
to live like a free man
just give me a new law

i don’t wanna know
if the answers aren’t easy
so just bring it down
from the mountain to me

i want a new law
i want a new law
gimme that new law
…what’s the use in trading
a law you can never keep
for one you can that cannot get you anything

do not be afraid
do not be afraid
do not be afraid
“a new law”

As a bonus, Kate likes it. She tries to sing the end of this song (“do not be afraid”) but it comes out very unenunciated.