We All Like Sheep, etc.

Up on catapult today, thoughts on shepherding inspired by conversations with Kate: We All Like Sheep.

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From around the internets:

Great article from the Atlantic: Is Facebook Making Us Lonely?

Combining two things that make me very happy: Downton Sixbey.

 

Wordless Wednesday

Caine’s Arcade from Nirvan Mullick on Vimeo.

On “Jesus Wept”

“Jesus Wept” is, to me, the most profound passage in the Bible. After I gave a recent lecture on this verse at Duke University, Richard Hays commented on my reflections: “The Incarnate Word of God stood wordless at Bethany.” Indeed, Jesus’ tears make no logical sense, as he came to Bethany with the specific mission to raise Lazarus from the grave. He told the disciples his mission (and why he intentionally delayed his arrival, knowing that Lazarus lay dying) and revealed to Martha that he was and is the “Resurrection and the Life.” So why did he, upon seeing the tears of Mary, waste his time weeping, when he could have shown his power as the Son of God by wiping away every tear, telling people like her, “Ye of little faith, believe in me!”?

In my reflections, this “irrational,” emotional response from Jesus became a central means to understand the role and even the necessity of art in the midst of suffering—what I have began to call our “Ground Zero” conditions. Art, like the tears of Christ, may seem useless, ephemeral and ultimately wasteful. But even though they evaporate into our atmosphere, the extravagant tears of God dropped on the hardened, dry soils of Bethany, or onto the ashes of our Ground Zero conditions, are still present with us. Because tears are ephemeral, they can be enduring and even permanent, as with “Jesus wept.” In the same way, perhaps our art can be so as well. What seems, at first, to be an irrational response to suffering may turn out, upon deep reflection, to be the most rational response of all. —Makoto Fujimura

Thankful…

– for new friends to share joyful potlucks with.
– for other new friends who encourage and challenge me.
– for forty days of Easter.
– for children who are patient with me and fine with dyeing eggs and getting new dresses “sometime during Easter.”
– … and who also help clean the house.
– for a husband who pitches in and does what I need him to, even when his to-do list is long.
– for new opportunities on the horizon.
– for hope.

Happy Easter. He is Risen!

I Like Their Title Better

The editors of the City project at Christianity Today saw my blog post from last week and used it on their website. Glad I could contribute to their project, I’ve found it really encouraging.

Easter at Home 2012

It’s Maundy Thursday, one of my favorite days in the liturgical year. Check here if you need some ideas for celebrating the rest of Holy Week & Easter at home.

Here are a few free printables you might want to display for Easter. They are sized to be printed as 8x10s, and if you click on them you can save the high resolution files.

Wordless Wednesday

Leaving Egypt by Chuck DeGroat

One of the most disorienting things in life is suffering. Even when we know all the right things about how the world is fallen and broken in every way, pain jars us, and makes us question who God is and our relationship to him, in part because “we are not often told that once we’ve been delivered into freedom, the hardest times may still be ahead” (pg 75.) As we journey through life and its inevitable suffering, we need to be reminded of the truth, and Leaving Egypt is an able and welcome guide.

By using the Exodus narrative as a structure, author Chuck DeGroat guides us through four parts of the Christian life. (1) Egypt: Facing Our Fear, (2) Sinai: Receiving Our New Identity, (3) Wilderness: Entering the Furnace of Transformation and (4) Home: Experiencing New Identity and Mission. Though each part is essential, well-written and helpful, I felt most drawn to the third section. As the subtitle declares, we often find God in wilderness places, and it is good to be reminded of how God is at work in the midst of suffering and how he uses our suffering teach us.

Though DeGroat shows the hopefulness and promise in suffering, he is also very honest about its difficulty. There are no formulas for quick fixes, but a deep and real acknowledgement of the pain and darkness we all grapple with and a helpful framework for lament.

Though theological and thoughtful, this is a very practical and applicable read. DeGroat draws from many years of experience as a counselor, pastor and professor to help readers understand how this Exodus narrative intersects with their own lives and struggles. There are also questions at the end of each chapter for personal reflection or group discussion.

The Exodus story “invites us to look back at where we’ve been and remember God’s relentless love for us despite our many failures” (pg 154.) Even though we may feel like we prefer the safety and familiarity of our own Egypts and enslavement, God longs for us to move forward. As we journey through our own difficulties and pain, Leaving Egypt reminds us of the truth of who we are, as believers united to Christ. I know I will read it again (a rarity among Christian books for me) and appreciate its simple, clear wisdom. I have already recommended it several times, and would commend it to anyone in the church. (9.5/10)

I received a free copy of this book for review purposes. The opinion expressed is my own.

March Books

Wonder by R. J. Palacio was fantastic. Read a full review here. (10/10)

Looking for Alaska by John Green was a spring break re-read. I liked it better this time around, it’s very thought provoking and a solid debut for Green, one of my favorite authors for young adults. (8.5/10)

Triumph of the City by Edward Glaeser is a must read for people who love cities or want to understand why cities are and will continue to be so important. Triumph takes interdisciplinary look towards the future of urban centers and shows why some cities thrive and others falter. (8.5/10)

The Circle of Seasons by Kimberlee Ireton, like the name implies, examines the church year and how it contributes to a life of faith. It’s a a good introduction I’d recommend to someone starting to observe the church calendar. (8/10)

Leaving Egypt by Chuck DeGroat was fantastic, full review next week. (9.5/10)

Why Cities?

Memphis Skyline HDR [Mantiuk]

photo by flickr user exothermic.

Christianity Today’s This is Our City project released a five-minute documentary this week entitled “Marking the Place of Sin and Grace: The Meaning of Our City Monuments” – I’d highly recommend you watch it as soon as you are able.

The city of Richmond is used as an example of how Christians can work for the transformation of their cities, redeeming places of past sin and remembering them with grace. It is especially relevant to those of us who live in the South, but there is something to learn regardless of which city you live in.

I am a city person. I recognize that not everyone is wired that way. But this short film reminded me of one of the reasons I love cities. Cities have a story, both a history and a hope for a future. In that way, a city is inherently dynamic and organic, even before you consider the liveliness of residents living in close proximity.

America’s cities often have Christians as part of their stories, founders and leaders who made the city great. Many Christians also contributed to the decline of their cities by neglecting them in time of need and leaving cities for the suburbs. And so, it is redemptive and moving to me to see Christians engage the city by choosing to live, work, worship, start schools and raise children in an urban context.

In Birmingham, we lived about six blocks from one of its most famous monuments, the statue of Brother Bryan at Five Points, the cultural center of the city. James Alexander Bryan was a Presbyterian minister known for his tireless advocacy on behalf of the poor and marginalized, his giving spirit and his fervent prayer life. He eschewed titles and preferred for everyone to call him Brother Bryan.

During his fifty-year tenure as the minister of Third Presbyterian in Birmingham’s Southside, Bryan embodied the parish mindset, serving everyone from prisoners to prep school students with dignity and care. Halfway through his ministry, the Birmingham Age Herald wrote of Bryan, “we who have watched his footsteps see the tracks which he has left among the desolate and distressed.” He founded two soup kitchens and lived just long enough to see a dream fulfilled when Birmingham’s first homeless shelter opened. It is named Brother Bryan Mission in his honor.

This generation of urban Christians may feel like pioneers, but we stand on the shoulders of giants. Our cities were known, loved and oftentimes even built by great men and women who lived out the gospel, day in and day out. If you look hard enough, you can find evidence of their love that still remains.

When we moved to Memphis last summer, a new friend urged me to read about the city’s yellow fever epidemics to understand Memphis better. In the summer of 1878, the epidemic was so powerful that over half the population left the city in a matter of days. But many clergy members, Protestant and Catholic, chose to stay behind ministering to the sick and dying, caring for both bodies and souls. They also served hundreds of newly orphaned children.

Over 5,000 people died of yellow fever in Memphis in a few months’ time, and numbered among them were many pastors as well as nuns from both Catholic and Anglican orders. When I pass the great stone churches of downtown Memphis, I am reminded of their stories, told in telegrams and journals and by witnesses to their acts of love and mercy. Like the story of Sisters Constance and Thecla, who refused to lie down when they realized they had the fever, knowing the beds would have to be burned if they died, and preferring to save the mattresses for the comfort of others. I remember the incarnational ministry of each one who stayed, acting as the hands and feet of Jesus to those who were too poor or unhealthy to flee Memphis for safety.

These examples of love and mercy are an encouragement to all of us, and Christians are needed everywhere to live out our faith among their neighbors, with love and vulnerability. But right now, there is a particular need for Christians to work in cities, binding up broken places in the name of Christ. There are fewer professing Christians in most cities than in the suburbs, and more work to be done.

We should all delight in seeing neighborhoods revive and thrive. Urban revitalization is trendy inside and outside the church, but Christians can play a crucial role in ensuring that gentrification is done with justice, so that all residents experience the benefits of a neighborhood’s improvements.

As for our family, we are still learning what it means to be Memphians and a part of this city’s particular story. The more I understand its past, the greater my hopes for its future. I am encouraged by how many Christians here love this city and how much redemptive work is already being done: creative, innovative, community development. It is an exciting place to be, a place where working for the shalom of the city feels right, knowing that the labors of Christians in Memphis today is leaving evidence of Christ’s love and grace that will encourage the next generation and may even shape the story of Memphis.

(I highly recommend a book I finished this month called Triumph of the City if you are interested in why cities are so important from a sociological and economic standpoint. Even if you aren’t called to live in an urban neighborhood, from its completely secular perspective, it might convince you of why urban ministries and church planting efforts are so crucial for the future of the church and worthy of support and prayer.)

Odds & Ends XII

+ A Slow-Books Manifesto was very thought provoking, what would your reading manifesto say?
+ For the first time, I’m suffering from seasonal allergies. I am open to any and all suggestions.
+ Holy Week starts Sunday, check out this post if you are looking for suggestions for observing at home.
+ I was very moved by this story from All Things Considered: Unlikely Advocates For Teen Killers: Victims’ Families.
+ The rationalization for why I will be headed to Starbucks tomorrow to get some work done tomorrow. It’s true for me.
+ The return of Mad Men has made me really happy. But how long can “zoo bisou bisou” stay stuck in my head if those are the only words I know?

On Trayvon Martin

I’ve been thinking about writing a blog post about Trayvon Martin for two weeks. It’s hard to know what to say in the face of suffering and injustice. But these sorts of incidents can be a catalyst for asking ourselves hard and necessary questions. Instead of writing about vigilantism or guns or prejudice, I want to start with those questions.

Is this case unique or is this an example of systematic injustice? (I want to refrain from quick answers but I also highly recommend this blog post from 2009 entitled “Black Black Boy Swagger, Black Mom Fear.”)

Who are we afraid of? Why?

Is it appropriate to use a handgun in a conflict? When? Why? Would you carry one?

If we can think we’re doing the right thing, but be wrong, what safeguards do we have to keep our emotions in check?

What is our responsibility towards our neighbor’s property? Is it different from our neighbor himself?

There are many angles to consider this story from and I appreciate this roundup from Kristen at Rage Against the Minivan for more of them.

I think this death should cause us all great sorrow at a life cut short and the dangerous profiling that black young men face in daily life. Even if details about Martin or the incident emerge that paint him in a less saintly light, remember that the truth resists simplicity. He may not be perfect but that doesn’t change these facts of the case: that he was unarmed and that a large man was following him while he returned from buying snacks. He was not committing a crime.

I hope that in a year, or even five, our society remembers Trayvon Martin. And we’re a little bit better because we do.